Are you playing a game?

"It just not worth your Life"

 There are no forces that makes some one go out and decide to have sex with someone outside of the marriage covenant. Most people are caught up in these relationship because in their mind the enemy has confused what God meant as a gift for marriage,They now use it to survive being in an unwanted relationship.

Yes, I said it! You are not making love you are trying to keep someone happy or keep he or she from leaving you because you are not ready to let go.  ”A Means Of Survival”. Sexual Sin is Sexual Sin.   Oh and in that one particular moment do you ever think about the health risk?  I was always taught if someone is willing to sleep with you right away then, “You are not the first person they have done this with”. They are giving it up to you and many more. Which raises the question now, How many people are sleeping in your bed?

This phrase is used loosely and in my opinion– needed to be made clear; just so that in the future it will be understood and not misunderstood. The word of God says in all thy getting get an understanding… With regard to my recent project “Open Door Closed Closet”,  available at (http://www.barnesandnoble.com/s/mario-nocentelli?store=book) and other online retailers;  my book was not written to bash, hurt or offend any ones lifestyle especially one I used to live as well.  I was in sexual sin myself and I know how you begin to feel trapped (in your own drama) after a while. The first time—- it was so good and now that you have to perform the sex act over and over again;  you feel dirty! In  your heart, you know it is wrong, however, you are trapped in a scene that should have never been written. Listen, I was saved by Gods grace and if it is enough for me it can be enough for you!  Gay, Bisexual, or Straight .  God is concerned and  wanted this subject brought to the forefront because we hide it so often or just decide we have to accept it and there is no hope for those who crave the lifestyle of sexual sin. News flash, this is not the will of  God.  The old folk use to call it bed Hopping!  You know…hop from one bed to the other.  If you do not stand for something you will fall for anything!  Now that statement has been proven over and over and time after time!

Okay, so a common question I’m asked: are people born Gay?  My answer to that is no! Homosexuality is not genetic— it is a spirit. There is no way for anyone to go down to  the local hospital and pick out the Gay babies, hores, pimps, strippers, liers, or the next president. And to add insult to injury by telling your mother she gave birth to a gay baby is hypocrisy. Another lie the enemy uses to keep you (us) in bondage…

Question :What about gay men who say they cannot get rid of the desires of wanting a man? The enemies job is to attack the mind first that is how he can keep one bound in sin. The bible says so a man think, so is he…(proverbs 23 niv) the life we lead is created by our thoughts, meaning your thoughts become your reality… If your mind is made up that this sin is no longer an option for you then you too can be delivered. God has no respective person.

Question: Why would I choose this lifestyle, I would not wish it on anyone some would say, I never chose this? In my opinion, I spent approx eighteen years in homosexuality. I was molested as a child from the age of 6 until 12 years of age. My first reference for when it came to sex was a man. So the enemy used that to steer me into a lifestyle. What did the enemy use to get you involved in whatever it sexually that you are doing. You may not have  been Gay but what i s your issue?  God never intended for us to live in our flesh man. We all have one and if you feed him he will grow. That  is why we have to turn to the word of God to strengthen our Spirit man so that he can be the one to lead us and make us strong… If  you noticed I put a picture I liked on my Facebook  page it states, “Life does not get easier, You just get stronger”   I was 16 years old the first time I entered a gay bar… My father was not in my life; my mother was a single parent. Even though all these things were factors in me being homosexual, I still made a choice to live in Sexual Sin for many years. Even though deep down in my spirit man I knew it was wrong.  We choose the roads we go down in life. Just like, I chose to stop and say enough and ask God to make my crooked path straight. These are all choices…

Question: How is it that you (Mario) have been able to support a straight lifestyle and have not gone back, when it seems so hard of a fight for others?  God delivered my  mind before anything , and then I had a change of heart. At  that point I cried out to God for many years before He answered me. His desire was that I was sincere this time…There were times when he answered me and because of the environment or state I was in I went right back to my same old sin… You see the key was I had to let go of  everybody and everything that looked like that sin until I was strong enough in the lord to deal with it on my own again. So that is what I did I pushed everyone and everything that did not look like where God  wanted my life to go My destiny, out of my life. You see the roads and associations you have will alter your purpose and delay you from your destiny!

“Do not be fooled by an Imitation of Life”

You see God loves us all, He said in his word (Deuteronomy 30:19) “Today I have given you the choice between life and death, between blessings and curses. Now I call on heaven and earth to witness the choice you make. Oh, that you would choose life, so that you and your descendants might live!

So we have the right to “Free will”God is not going to force us to live the way He desires for us to live. He is just not that kind of God. Loving, not forceful. Yes, God loves you. And he has a plan for your life if you are interested.

You might ask, what if I am living with a girl and we are just testing things out to see if we are a match? Well here’s my advice,  if the Lord came back in the middle of the night and you are laying with a woman or a man who you are not married to you will have to explain that to him! ” I would love to be a fly on the wall in that conversation….

Now there is “His Will” this is when we say he is lord over our lives we live in His will for our lives. God’s desire is for us to have his best life. Try to give your Life to God! You will have so much more peace!

 It is a choice if you live in sexual sin no matter if you are in fornication, lewdness, restfulness a whore or a homosexual whatever your out-of-order sign says!. I will end with this scripture and in my opinion this is all God wants from any of us. (2 Chronicles 7; 14) However, if my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves, pray, search for me, and turn from their evil ways, then I will hear [their prayer] from heaven, forgive their sins, and heal their country. So there you have it this is what I believe God wants me to say to his people… “There is hope and He can heal anyone from anything including Our minds from Sexual Sin”.

Thank you, may these words be a blessing to you and yours that God can do anything. He is God, you just have to be serious enough to really want to repent and change your life. Otherwise you will just exist and never reach you fullest potential that He has for you. God’s best life. “His Will” at that point you’ve come to the understanding, that your life is not yours to live any kind of way. Because of Calvary, He gave his life, and we owe him our lives.

Hey it just time for those of who know better to do better bottom line….Hold yourself  for the one that God has for you it will save you a lot of trials in tribulations. God bless and I hope this will provoke you to a decision .

Author Mario Nocentelli

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Which man will you allow to lead you? Flesh or Spirit?